必然
L說：「你知道你的問題是什麼嗎？你不認為自己的achivements是achivements。認識你這麼久，看著你做到了這麼多，但每件事，做之前你認為自己不可能做到，過後又覺得，別人都做到，這不是了不起，只是應該做到罷。」一矢中的。我的他在旁讚歎，竟可將我分析得如此透徹，又表達得這麼好，厲害。
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今早在火車上，想起我的工作、我的朋友、我的愛情、我的理想、我的大志、我的經歷、我的未來、我的不快樂…
…忽然就想起L這句話。
上次你對我這麼說，是幾年前的事情了罷？時間過的真快，但我還未擺脫這麼的想法。
從來，
女人，
都難過自我肯定這一關吧。
有點像雞蛋與雞 - 是自我形象偏低所以不懂自我肯定，也是因不懂自我肯定所以自我形象偏低…
（奇實答案是，先有公雞，哈哈哈）
posted by Viv @ 12:16 PM
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剛查看舊的留言，發現你也是HYS的學生!!對啊，我小學都在哪裡讀啊，我們會不會曾經在操場或小食部擦肩而過呢?世界真細小......
There is an educational theory behind the problem of "not considering an achievement an achievement".
In educational terms, a problem is something that a student is not able to solve skillfully. After practicing and learning, the problem will become a task, which is something within the ability to perform routinely.
Conclusion is
1. You enjoy self-inflicted pain and always take on new challenges (problems).
2. And you feel that the ability of performing routine tasks is nothing.
When one gets older, the mind will change. :)
?!?!?!
I enjoy self-inflicted pain?!?!?!
I RESENT THAT :p
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